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Hi Archie, I am a Scorpio woman. I’ve been in a long relationship with a Libran man. Though I am serious in this relationship, at times my guy drives me up the wall and makes me wonder if he is the right person for me - as I do not wish to end up with a broken marriage or whatever. Recently I met a Taurus who attracts me a lot. He seemed to be serious about me as well. I am not very sure of my own feelings towards these two men, therefore I’ve done nothing to end this love triangle… I know I have to come up with a decision but right now I lack the courage to do anything. - Valencia, Texas
Valencia, thank you very much for your question. Libra and Scorpio can be a problematic relationship - sometimes Scorpio can be annoyed by Libra’s indecisiveness. Libra can also live in its head, which contrasts with the raw passion exhibited by many Scorpios.
Taurus and Scorpio tends to be a powerful combination - there’s a natural chemistry, that tends to be very physical. However it can get out of hand - jealousy and possessiveness can become major issues.
As far as your own relationships are concerned, I set up a chart for the moment I read and understood your email.
My feeling is, that you’re not ready to make up your mind. While it seems to be true that you’re moving away from your Libran man, things don’t seem to have played themselves out.
On balance, it seems that your relationship with the Scorpio is getting closer - I get the impression that right now he’s keener on you than you are on him. However I would advise, in the short term, that you try to keep the relationship cool and calm, putting the emphasis on friendship rather than love.
If you’re a typical Scorpio, then triangular relationships aren’t something you’re very comfortable with, and yes, you will have to make a decision. But you don’t have all the facts. And it might be a few weeks, or even months, before you’re ready to make up your mind. In the meantime, you need plenty of space, and you need to put your own interests first.
Having said all this, we’re living in fast moving times, and on October 28 there was a New Moon, in your star sign. I suspect that over the course of the next week something will happen which will confirm your inner feelings.